I am not sure about how others will react in a similar situation but my wedding anniversary happens to fall on the same date of my son's and because of that it's as if I lost all my license to celebrate each time that day falls. I am cool. I forgot already why I agreed on that date but it had more to do with how little I care about my supposed life partner. Well if he cares for me even a little he wouldn't make that suggestion. Maybe he is just really dumb. I don't really know. He keeps saying it's a gift for our son. I say if you love your son, you won't fake things.
Jay FlannellyKathy Hoekstra